New To Sex? Hire An Escort
First of all, I want to thank you for this incredible blog, and I’m so happy to have found a website where to go and rid of some doubts. I don’t want to tell you the whole story of my life neither bother you with information that does not make sense. But I want to start saying I’m 23, at this point of my life I sill having some insecurities about my sexual definition, I mean I’m pretty sure I’m gay, but the fact is that in my short lifetime I’ve never been in a relationship with a boy even worst, not having any kind of sexual intercourse with a man, I realized my sexual attraction to men because watching some straight porn when I was 14, but I noticed male anatomy more interesting than female one, but that was the only prompt since then to tell myself more prone to men than women. I’m a little bit shy and I struggle with networking with people at the time for trying to start a relationship, so I’m single.
But now, something inside me woke up and my willingness for having sex with a guy was stronger than before, and this situation it’s complicated for me because I haven’t decided to get out of the closet with my family because as I said before, my head is full of doubts, but this desire of exploring something new has led me to seek the option to try with male escorts, but through the pathway of this journey I’ve been questioning myself if it’s a good idea to have my first time in this way, and also this scares me that I just interested in satisfying physical needs before an emotional one. And now I contact you to share my concerns about dealing with a male escort to lose my virginity.
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Friend, you are gay. Or bisexual. Or queer. By asking these questions, you’re in the club. You don’t have to settle on a label right now; you may call yourself “gay” or “bisexual” now and decide later that “queer” or “pansexual” suits you better. But you’re definitely one of us. Welcome.
Satisfying your sexual needs shouldn’t scare you. Your sexual needs are important, and there’s nothing shameful about needing sex.
At this age, you’re probably going to be focused on satisfying your sexual needs for a few years. That’s fine. Let the emotional and romantic stuff come later. It will come, and it will get easier after you have some sexual experience behind you.
You have doubts. You’re 23. It would be strange if you didn’t have doubts. There’s so much you don’t know! You don’t know what kind of sex you’re looking for. You probably have no idea when and how how to come out to your family. You don’t even really know what sexual orientation or identity you feel most comfortable with.
Don’t worry. These answers will come to you in time. There’s no need to solve these questions immediately.
Hiring an escort is a great idea. If you have the money, an escort can teach you the mechanics of sex, go at a speed that feels comfortable, and give you feedback, and they can do this without the heavy and confusing emotions that tend to accompany our first sexual attempts. The fact is, you will have a lot of feelings associated with your first sexual encounter, and those feelings will be tough to navigate. You’ll think you want to date the first guy who fucks you, but you don’t. That feeling is an emotional hangover from a powerful sexual experience and it will pass — pretty quickly, I might add.
I discourage everyone from dating their first-time sex partners. I discourage everyone from dating their fourth, fifth, and sixth-time sex partners. If you’re really horny, fuck ten people before even considering getting into a romantic entanglement. Why? Because you need some experience that tells you a key truth about sex: Sex is neither the foundation or side effect of love.
Your first experiences will be so overwhelming that you’ll think you love the men you share them with. You don’t — and the quicker you realize that the less heartbreak you will encounter later on.
Who’s the best person to offer a romance-free, purely fun sexual experience? A sex worker. We’ll deliver pleasure and help you get some practice. It’s our job.
Sex is easier when you’re not worried about screwing up an emotional component. Most people feel freer to play when they’re with someone who has no stake over their hearts. That’s why a sex worker is a great option — because they don’t have those romantic strings. An escort is going to cater to your needs, commit to a certain amount of time, deliver a good experience (because they’re being paid to), and remove the messy feelings that nearly always come with our first attempts at sex by allowing it to simply be a transaction. People are really scared of the term “transactional,” as if most human connections (even deeply romantic ones) did not depend on reciprocity. A sex worker simplifies sex — you won’t have to worry “Will he still likes me? Did I do good enough?” when it’s over.
Since this is a business, I should say that I am an escort and have helped several clients explore various sexual experiences for the first time. But I’m not the only one! There are countless highly-skilled sex workers (or escorts, if you prefer that term) who can help you get started. All you need to do is tell them you’re a virgin and ask them to go slow. If they’re not interested in having sex with a virgin, no worries! Move on to the next guy. You’ll find someone who understands where you’re at and will go at your speed.
Depending on who you hire, you’ll spend anywhere from $100 to $500 an hour (industry standard is $250). If you hire someone who offers special services, has extensive kink expertise, or is a famous face in porn, you may pay more. Go to Rent.Men or RentMen.eu if you’re in Europe — this is the best site to find male escorts.
