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Open Relationships Uncovered

What is it with gay men and open relationships? Are they evidence that our relationships are as varied and individual as we are – or proof that gay...

How Risky Is Fucking Without Condoms?

Most gay men who have HIV caught it from getting fucked without a condom. As far as gay sex goes, getting fucked without a condom, and having your ...

Best Gay Sex Toys In 2020: The Ultimate Sex Toy List For Same-Sex Couples And Male Pleasure

Are you wanting to spice up your sex life? You're in luck - we've pulled together a list of some of the best sex toys for gay couples. From stroker...

Are We 'Generation Bareback'?

It’s been 35 years since the New York Times reported on a ‘rare cancer seen in 41 homosexuals’ – an article from the summer of 1981 that is conside...

Straight People Don't Exist, Research

A 2015 study shows that human sexuality is fluid and women are hornier than you think. A 2015 study published in the Journal of Personality and Soc...

How to support LGBTQ coworkers?

Model acceptance and inclusion, especially if you're in a leadership position A great way to create a safe and welcoming climate is to celebrate LG...

Fetishes Every Gay Man Should Know Pt.2

Guns As phallic-shaped instruments of power, it is no surprise that guns are heavily fetishized, although, for obvious reasons, exploring this fet...

New To Sex? Hire An Escort

First of all, I want to thank you for this incredible blog, and I’m so happy to have found a website where to go and rid of some doubts. I don’t wa...

Fetishes Every Gay Man Should Know Pt.1

Leather Leather is one of the most commonly fetishized materials, and certainly one of the oldest. Tom of Finland’s 1970s drawings of biker boys, ...

Tips For Happier, Healthier Bottoming

As gay men, a good portion of some of our lives will be dedicated to the art and craft of anal sex. It is one of my favourite ways to pass an eveni...

23 Gay Sex Lessons I Wish I Had Learned In High School

Let’s all agree on something: High school is awful. Gay men almost unanimously remember high school as a time of closets, insecurity, and bad fash...

A Very Sexy Beginner's Guide To BDSM Words

The vocabulary of BDSM can be intimidating to newcomers (newcummers, heh heh). What is your domme talking about when she tells you to to stop top...

Why Pop Culture Just Can’t Deal With Black Male Sexuality?

These are banner times for penises onscreen. In the last couple of years or so, I’ve seen casually naked men on “The Affair” and on “Girls,” plus c...